Sunday 25 December 2016

SEASONAL BLOG 2016 in Review (25th December 2016)

24/12/2016    22.20   Trujillo Peru  SEASONS  GREETINGS
Seasonal Blog December 2016




Well, 2015 was a year of decision making and after much discussion and deiliberation I decided to return to Peru and Nick. I was back in Peru by January 10 and stright back to work at the conservatoire BUT having got completely frustrated with the closed mind syndrome, I decided that the only way to resolve my feelings about how music was to be taught was to start my own academy.

This also coincided with the decision to really put some effort into life with Nick, and so we went out and searched for a new flat to rent and found an absolutely beautiful flat close to the centre of town but in a quiet and “posh” residential area. The flat is lovely, our home and our refuge.  (We got all our furniture out of storage!)



Fortunately I found out that if I formed a limited company here with Nick as the owners and then, with Nick as General Manager the same company employed me I was entitled to apply for a residential “workers” visa for up to three years and then apply for extensions. So we started this process in April.

Of course this process was far from easy involving innumerable trips to the lawyers, and various government departments however, the process including obtaining my “Carnet de Extranjeria” was completed shortly before my 60th birthday in August. So I am a legal worker here and Nick is my boss.

On August 23rd the “Academia Internacional de Musica” held its inaugural concert in a packed Teatro Municipal and we were up and running. Growth has been slow but steady over the last four months but it has and will continue to need financial support until we reach a break even point in the middle of 2017.
Inaugural concert

Back in April on St. Georges Day Nick and I held a small party to recognise our relationship and we swapped rings to marked the event. It was a lovely evening amongst our close more liberal minded friends. 

The influence of the church is still way to dominant, but I think even Pope Francis has a special place in hell reserved for the arch conservative, right wing, homophobic and misogynistic Peruvian cardinal Cipriani who makes his own interpretation of canon law, and has way too much political influence.

In order to focus on my new life in Peru and to curb any sense of wanderlust or enabling doubt to creep in I took the rather harsh decision to reduce my contact with friends and my ties to the UK. Hence for the last 6 – 8 months you have heard very little from me. It was tough to do this but I felt that it was also necessary, I wanted to make sure that I could be satisfied with life here and that meant no “home country” distractions. I hope you can all forgive me for my silence.

I feel Peruvian and certainly now work Peruvian hours 9am – 1pm and 4pm – 9pm. Nick and I hardly see each other in the week-night evenings, just time for a bite to eat and bit of telly and bed! And of course Nick works tirelessly for his company (but is very tired) and is out from 7:45am to 9pm as a rule. I also work on Saturday mornings whilst the business is building up.



My Spanish fails to improve and frankly I cannot get stressed over this (there is plenty of other stuff to stress me) so I speak my “Mott – Spanglish” but it is sufficient to teach with and my pupils and Peruvians friends are very understanding and indulgent. Nick of course has improved his already excellent English to a new level: we talk English in the flat and watch BBC World News and Nick is starting to appreciate the English sense of humour and irony.



For my 60th we managed to take of to Punta Sal for 4 days, which was lovely, this quiet beach resort was even quieter than usual as it was low season and actually just perfect for our needs for rest and relaxation. We don't see another vacation until March (and that will be subject to both the demands of Nick and my work).






September hailed the AIM “Academia Internacional de Musica” Festival of Young Musical Talent and I participated in 9 of the 10 concerts we gave in a two week period. Including 2 concerts with the symphony orchestra ay which I accompanied 7 young soloists (all students of mine at one tim eor another).





 I fell fowl of the administration of the orchestra who objected to the extra promotion we were giving the concerts via the Academy, even though the usual audience of 60 – 80 “old dears” was changed to 400 and then 500 young people under 30! 




 Pigheaded jealousy is preferred to the benefit of bringing music to a new audience and I was accused of vanity! Simply because I used my image on some very striking advertising that pulled in the crowds. The Administration refused to see this as a benefit and these successful concerts went by with no formal recognition. (F**k 'em – I and the orchestra had a great time!)



The orchestra performed new music and although we have had our difficulties in the past we were reconciled and they played the best they have ever played for me. See videos.





The Academy is slowly and surely building up a young following for our concert series and we are consciously aiming at an under 35 audience, our concerts are more informal, and we play a mix of classical, jazz and popular music styles. The Academy facebook page has nearly 1700 likes, so we are doing good!  We should hit more than 2000 in January.

AFter presenting Riley in C

Joking with the audience  I threatened we would play the piece again!


I am determined to change the way music is taught here and to encourage young talent and to foster real musical development. It is fun, frustrating buy ultimately will be worthwhile. I am contemplating the formation of a charity/NGO so that we can attract funds to take professional development of musicians to a new level. Especially in the fields of popular music and jazz, where, outside of Lima there is no provision at all! I want to start a professional development programme of 1 year for 15 young musicians to kick start their careers: tuition, concerts, recordings and business advice (if anybody knows where I can lay my hand on £25K of funding do let me know).
As yet a dream, but I want to make it a reality in 2017-2018.

My ambition for the orchestral directors post is firmly on the back boiler and the position is so enmeshed in politics that apart from asking to be invited to conduct once or twice a year, I have shelved any other plans (although of course I will apply if the job ever gets advertised again - just to be awkward!)

4 years Oct 21 2016
I continue to have problems with sleep, now down to around 5 hours a night if I am lucky and I do feel perpetually tired. I also feel my age some days, with my memory playing tricks on me, but I put this down to tiredness. And my legs feel like lead weights by the time bedtime comes. Hey ho!


Just invested in photo-chromatic lenses for my glasses and my word what a difference. Need to stop straining my eyes (and everything else!)

4 years Oct 21 2016


















Nick's career is going from strength to strength but he has a difficult boss and all the sales executives are treated in a manner that would lead to prosecutions in the UK – there are no rights for workers here and contracts are abused and ignored. This year he travelled to USA several times, Germany and France. 2017 he will be in San Francisco, Anaheim California, New York x2, Boston, Pittsburgh, Cologne, Dubai and Sydney. He looks after around 15 millions $US of contracts, but his company certainly demands their pound of flesh but for Trujillo he is well paid. He is the “king of the artichokes” responsible for the exportation of nearly 20 million kilogrammes of the product!

Homes and Gardens ?
We celebrate each month of our relationship passing 50 months this last week on the 21/22 December.

There is no Christmas Day or New Years Day “extra” holiday here, so people will be working on the 24th and again on the 26th and the same for New Year. It is hard to believe it is Christmas when it is around 24 degrees and sunny and the start of Summer. But there is no sense of festivity in the air, people are generally dampened for some reason. We have our tree up and the balcony is now looking like something from the pages of Home and Gardens. Which is lovely as we need this as our relaxation space and all the summer it will be drinks and food al fresco.

This year I have accepted the invitation from Nick's family to join them for the Festive meal at Midnight on the 24th. We will have our own quiet celebration on the 25th as well.

So, it's been a hard year but Nick and I are working our best to create a more secure future. I keep busy and try not to miss people and things and this can only be achieved by being more Peruvian and less of a foreigner in Peru. Peru has its challenges and drives me way beyond crazy at times but I have a good team at the academy, we are creating something worthwhile and I have the love and support of a good man. So lots to be thankful for.



A few more fotos before I go .....

National Day  "Fiestas Patrias"  with Friends in the Club Central!

The new Preident of Peru   PPK   "A very, very good musician in his spare time"

4th anniversary meal at La Piadina  (Our favourite restaurant for 2016)

Mr Cool aka "Fumble fingers Mott"

Seasons greetings to you all.
24 - 12 - 2016 

















Monday 25 April 2016

Compromiso - April 23, 2016

Last Saturday - April 23rd, St. George's day was also the day that Nick and I publically recognised our relationship, after 42 months and 2 days since we first met "in the flesh". We held a small party in our lovely new flat and in front of the assembled guests - all special friends of ours here in Trujillo - we said some words, we gave each other rings and cut the cake and drank some "fizz" with a toast given by our dear friend Gerado..

It was a very happy and very emotional time for us both and for our guests - as nobody knew what was going to happen, everybody just thought we were having a party. Some party!

The guest list represented our lives here, Nick had invited some very longstanding close friends and also two colleagues of his from work, I had invited several students and a friend from the orchestra and then we had our mutual friends that we have made since being together.

This was a very unique occasion, as same-sex relationships are not recognised in Peru and people are generally very conservative, so the word "brave" was mentoined quite alot especially as we are wearing rings on our engagement finger (in Peru left hand ring finger) the rings are simple plain silver wedding bands with an inscription engraved on the inside.

We mentioned that we are considering a civil union under UK law at the British embassy in Lima, and then a "conversion" to a marriage in the UK, both at a date to be decided. I so want to be able to say "my husband and I".......

No more to say, except enjoy the pictures, there is rumoured to be a video that I will add shortly (see below)!

The pictures are low-density but high quality pictures are available!  

Table ready for the party

Graciela, Nick and Elisa

Fredy, me, Rafa

Gemie, me, Paula

Nick gives me a ring

I give Nick a ring

We kiss - to much applause!

Cutting the cake.

A group of handsome men!  Carlos, Lucio, Gerardo, Nick, Me, Emilio

Elisa, Graciela, Me, Nick, Carmen

Smiles all round!

A very musical group!

 Video  has been passed by the board of censors, WARNING contains much love!







Monday 18 January 2016

January 18, 2016 Back in Trujillo.



What?????  There is another 45 minutes ..............??????    (all will be revealed later)

Back in Peru. On reflection, the last two months have whizzed by. After leaving Peru, due to my visa expiring and returning to the little rental house in Cehegin, Murcia, Spain. My sabbatical was restarted, but the return was somewhat different, part of me didn't want to be there and I was still sore with the interview process for the conducting position in Trujillo.

Anyways, I quickly decided two things: 1. I would make a trip to the UK and 2. I would plan a spectacular time for Nick and I over Christmas.

Since leaving a very hot Cehegin in October, the temperature had dropped and I needed to buy half a tonne (500kg) of logs and if I was to be warm the wood burning stove was a necessity. 500Kg of logs seems like a lot, but as it turns out was just sufficient to last until I left on January 7th. The also seemed a lot as they had to be transferred from the path outside the house, through the house and upstairs and stored on the terrace. About 50 return journeys! I had to buy a hefty axe and a saw as the logs were in the main way to large for the small door of the stove.

I was also grateful for the fact I had bought a 13.5 tog duvet, thanks to Amazon.

I left for the UK on November 27th, flying BA from Alicante to Gatwick and headed down to Hove to spend a few days with Andy, before heading to Birmingham, via London (friends and gin tasting) to stay with Martin and Jean. As always I was unable to see everybody and time was never long enough, but it was good to catch up with Barrie and also David and Heidi and all their mini-coopers.




Andy and I went to London on the 29th in order to take a walk on Hampstead Heath and go to the Advent Carol Service at Saint Paul's Cathedral. I was a typical November day but great fun and the music at the service was excellent.




















Another highlight was the spectacular lunch laid on by Rebecca and Shaun, amazing food including a huge Swedish Christmas Desert and some truly mind numbing cocktails. With the added attraction of seeing their many cats including my old two, Mr. Moggs and Dame Kitty.



I returned to Hove for a few more days, just to relax, managed to get to see “The Lady in the Van” vintage Alan Bennett, I remember reading the story years ago and maybe reading the script from the stage play. The film was first rate and it was interesting to see some of the minor characters, for instance Ursula Vaughan Williams (the very much young wife of the late Ralph Vaughan Williams the composer) and also interesting to recall the the Lady in the Van had started life as a concert pianist before her tragic decline.

I returned to Cehegin with just under a week to prepare for Nick's arrival on December 20th. Actually preparations consisted of buying some Christmas lights, collecting some fur cones – (a vital Christmas decoration ingredient, when available) and getting most of the booze and tinned and packet goods. It was also a week of drawing-up and testing recipes.

Soon I was on the bus to Murcia, then another to Alicante airport, then a taxi to El Altet where I was to stay the night as Nicks flight arrived at 08:20 in the morning. He arrived, tired and weary, having flown from Trujillo to Lima, been holed up in Lima for 12 hours and then, Lima to Madrid (12 hour flight) and then Madrid to Alicante.



We duly transferred ourselves to the 4* Spa Hotel in Alicante on the Marina where we were to relax for 2 days. Suffice it to say were had a marvellous time in Alicante, walking, ice-skating, talking, eating and drinking. We had excellent food and found an amazing Tapas bar, as well as a very authentic Italian restaurant!



Alicante boasts an excellent Contemporary Art Gallery and also some beautiful buildings and a two huge “El Corte Ingles” departmental stores.



After a good meal on Monday night Nick and I went to the casino opposite the hotel, where I demonstrated my boring but safe technique for playing French Roulette. We had a good hours fun and left with exactly the same amount of money as we had arrived with! So that was a win in my eyes!

















Tuesday we took the buses back to Cehegin and immediately downed tools to go food shopping. Wednesday was taken up with local sight seeing and a visit to the fruit and vegetable market.








Thursday was Christmas eve and it dawned a sunny day, so we decided to walk to Caravaca del la Cruz, and have a lazy day returning in order to make the NocheBuena meal. I had decided on Pork cooked in Pedro Ximenez sherry with cranberries, followed by Crema de Catalana (crème brulee). Having finished our meal around 11:45 we decided to go out for a walk and welcome in Christmas Day.














For some reason we both thought that we would meet others doing the same, but no. The streets were deserted but all the Christmas lights were on. It was a bit chilly but we took with us thermos mugs of camomille tea!



Christmas Day and a lazy morning then British Christmas Dinner except chicken not Turkey but including spouts and a flaming Christmas Pudding!




We also had Mince pies and Christmas cake all of which met with 100% approval from Nick. We could hardly move from all the food.

Monday 28th up bright, and early and down to Murcia to catch the bus to Madrid – I had booked the seats early and the ALSA bus company is owned by National Express so early bird fares were available. Our tickets to Madrid cost us €8 each which is under £6 for a 5.5 hour trip.



Our hotel in Madrid was a pensione on the 6th floor of a grand building lining the Gran Via, clean, quiet and so central. We easily negotiated the very excellent and  cheap Metro system, so after a quick change of clothes we were off out to explore.

I have never experienced pavements and streets so full of people! It was like the whole of Madrid was out walking, shopping and enjoying themselves. We got into the spirit of things and found a very authentic restaurant and Nick decided it was time to try Paella. Duly ordered and enjoyed!


On Tuesday we went clothes shopping: Primark Madrid is their biggest store in Europe, 4 floors each 14000 square metres 



and then out to visit Marco and his family on the outskirts of the city. Marco's mum, dad and sister were over from Mexico and his mum Pilar cooked us a splendid Mexican lunch. It was great to see them all again. We returned to town and after a rest went out to explore some of the less busy streets and find a nice bar for a few drinks, we went to a hotel bar where the hotel advert above wasDo you want to wake up with me” or words to that effect……… 
 

Wednesday dawned very cold, but Nick had his new duffle-coat from Santa and we headed off to El Prado. The queue was very slow moving but we managed to get in after about 45 minutes and headed for the El Greco's et al and then took in many of the other rooms. It is an amazing gallery, but so crowded, especially with guided tour parties.



By this time excitement was mounting and we needed to get lunch then head off to what some would say was the main event, so by 2.30 we were waiting for Gate 53 of the Bernabeu stadium to open. Yes, we were going to see Real Madrid play.  Apparently it is a bit like visiting the Gods!



Now, whilst football is not my thing, the match was enjoyable, the seats although up high (second cheapest at €65 each!) the view was perfect and the heating system meant that people were actually taking off their coats. The crowd was well behaved and thankfully Real Madrid won.





After the match 60,000 people seemed to be heading for the Metro station so we decided to walk back into the city centre, a long walk, but enjoyable especially as in so doing we saw and entered the Bristol Bar (a British Gin Bar)
and enjoyed some fine G and T's.

Next day back to Cehegin and luckily we made a teh local bus connection so that we were back in the house by 5pm and immediately went out to buy yet more food, as it was New Years Eve and the next day was a public holiday. WE decided on pasta for supper and also that I would make a Paella “par excellence” for New Years day.













After a lovely walk in the morning and with fine weather we had the Paella on the terrace and then spent the rest of the day playing cards and just chilling.







Saturday, 2nd of January and Nick was departing back to Peru, so I put him on the bus to the airport at 5pm, I didn't go to Alicante with him as I couldn't get back. Poor guy had a terrible time going back as his Lima flight was delayed almost 4 hours.


So I had until Thursday by myself and it was all a bit cold and miserable and I was just waiting to get my own flight on Jan 7 to arrive in Peru on Jan 8.

Hasta luego Cehegin!

It is amazing that Air Europa in 2016 on 12 hour flights does not have in seat entertainment systems. I was unable to sleep as I had pulled a muscle in my back as I sat down in my “lumpy” seat and had to keep changing position every 2 minutes to relieve the pain. Not a happy bunny!




On arrival in Lima I had 15 hour wait for my flight to Trujillo, but went into the city and stayed at a hotel in posh part of town where you could book a room for 12 hours only (you can work out what type of hotel it was for yourself) – it was clean and cheap and on the back of the door was a notice that I thought said in Spanish “Do not paint the walls, furniture and sheets – Fine S.200” - I checked with Nick and my translation was correct!

Anyways, I went walking to see the cats in Kennedy park, got sun burned but eventually arrived in Trujillo, to be met by Nick, at 10:30pm.

I am now back in Trujillo, in my rooming house, in the same room I have occupied twice before and also back into the routine of teaching afternoons and seeing Nick in the evenings. Except that last Thursday Nick left for San Francisco on business, he is back on Friday. 

Oh yes..... got weighed and need to loose around 12 kg!!! Another weighty project!


I am a bit anxious as I am hoping that tomorrow will be published the requirements for the Third Set of Interviews for the position of Artistic Director of the Symphony orchestra and I shall apply again, hopefully this time no falling foul of some stupid administrative procedure…….. wish me luck.

(Loads more pictures on my Facebook Page)