Sunday 10 November 2013

The agony and the ecstasy! "Home" thoughts from abroad!




First (and last) concert with Orquesta de Barro
It is sometimes painful to realize that things are just not working.  The Orquesta de Barro gave an excellent concert last Wednesday (Wed 6) but the journey to get there and the stressful circumstances surrounding my refusal to participate in the Camerata Arpegio inaugural concert last night (Sat 9) have convinced me this was not a “marriage made in heaven”.  I know I do not come out of this looking good but I hope that lessons are learned - just too frustrated by lack of support, poor attendance at rehearsals and carping criticism.

I was feeling very stressed, disillusioned with the whole thing as there was a real clash between me, the German volunteers, and the students. I sent my resignation letter to the Arpegio director last Friday and already I am back to feeling less stressed. We live and learn, and organisations lacking leadership and youth orchestras are definitely no longer my forte. 



And tough and selfish as it maybe I am now listening to my body and simply won’t tolerate stress anymore as it makes me feel physically sick, unable to sleep and unable to think!




Happily I had Nick to support and comfort me and I had the welcome distraction of cooking as we welcomed Maestro Alvarez as our first supper guest;  made especially touching be the fact that Maestro Alvarez commented that he felt that already he was in home not merely a house!









But I get ahead of myself…so back two weeks

….. finding the Mott-Tirado abode!
On the balcony overlooking avenida EspaƱa



Having failed to get a couple of apartments Nick went on a flat hunt via the web …. and what a result!  Yey!



Our flat is on the top floor
To cut a long story short, we both liked one particular flat and because I had rehearsals Nick went to see it alone with the agent, and came back simply describing it in one word: “amazing!”   He arranged a second viewing and interview with the owner and I was just stunned by the place and knew within two seconds we had to have it. Even though for a first place it is too big and maybe too grand (can it be too grand?)  But the rent was the same as much smaller flats and the location perfect both for Nick to get to work and for me to get to the Conservatoire – (it is just four blocks walk).



Fortunately the owner turned out to be the cousin of my good friend Vicky from the Conservatoire so that helped clinch the deal! So contracts were drawn up, signed and notarised – a surprisingly quick process and we were given keys to be able to access the flat to move in furniture etc. a week before our official moving date of November 1.  The flat comes with entry phone, cable TV and internet both fixed-line and Wifi!



Nick assembling some office furniture for the study.



Well, of course, I was on the journey to lead a simple life, and be a nomad, but “fate/life/karma” dictated otherwise – very happily – and so the last two weeks have been a whirlwind of spending as we were moving into a completely empty flat and everything needed to be purchased.  There is no e-bay, or second-hand market here, so it all had to be bought “new” – the design of the flat meant that we needed to go modern and so countless trips to the shopping mall, and some good luck on discounts and reductions meant that by November 2nd I could move despite the cooker, fridge and suite not arriving until November 5. Nick moves in shortly.

I made this short "through the keyhole" video of the flat ....... 





Yet again I am thankful for my private pension, which thanks to some profit taking, gave the funds for the spending spree.



Happy. Happy, happy.



Credo! 
Already we are planning some lovely dinner parties and evenings of DVD’s on the 50”  TV with additional sound system!  (Well somebody does like to watch his sport and I am hoping that the Six Nations will be available on our cable!)



As we have acres of wall space and a spare bedroom, so, I plan to start painting again and in my minds eye I see some large bold abstract paintings adorning the walls ……..













In the middle of all this, I had my concert with the Symphony Orchestra and it was a splendid evening with the orchestra responding to the challenges of the programme, which included the following first performance by up-and-coming composer Elizabeth Gil Diaz: a wonderful modern work and so different to the orchestra’s more traditional usual programme.  


CLICK TO VIEW VIDEO










I was extremely fortunate to have both a article promoting the concert in the regional newspaper ......


and also a Sunday special interview on the Sunday after the concert, which I gave in my very best/worst Spanglish (though I have to say more Spanish than English actually!!!!!)  


Click link below to read the article!



So one door closes (Arpegio) as another door opens (the flat), and yet another revolves as the relationship with the Symphony Orchestra evolves!   And the front door heralds a new chapter of my life  as Nick and I turn the flat into our home.



But I have to see if I can augment my pension a little bit …… Thankfully, with my certificate to teach English to Speakers of Other Languages (TESOL) I am going to offer my services to some of the local English Schools especially one, just 100 yards from the front door which teaches British English!



Today I am contemplating the luxury of an almost traditional British Sunday lunch with chicken, home cooked roast potatoes and loads of green veggies!!!!



More soon...... probably after my next Symphony Concert on 25th November which is a celebration of music and musicians!

But finally, a picture of the judges and winners from the National Singing Competition!